Valentine

I hope you remember the day we first met
It was like heaven on the sun
Somehow you made my heart melt
Felt like i had been shot by a gun
You did all those things for me
And now its time to repay
To show you love in every way
On this Valentines Day
I wanna show you that I know how to love
So you don’t misunderstand
That only I can make you feel loved
Better than any man can
Its my turn to make you laugh and think of words to say
But its only for this one Valentines Day!

Sorry

I Am Sorry
I Know You Don't Care.
'n I Know I Don't Listen,
But Please Take A Seat ,
So You Can Listen.

I Am So Sorry For What I Said To You.
You Have No Idea What I Have Been Through,
I Am Sorry For Yelling At The Top Of My Lungs.
I Am Sorry For Speaking In Tongues ,

I Know I Am Not Perfect,
Without A Doubt.
I Have Many Problems,
So Try Not To Shout,

I Know Its My Fault,
I Shall Act Like This,
The Way I Used To Be,
I Really Miss,

I Am Sorry For What I Have Put You Through,
What Ever I Can Do To Help,
I Shall Do,

Sorry For Falling In Love With You,
But I Always Thought,
Our Love Shall Be True,

Sorry For Ever Loving You.. !

One Way Love

A one way love can never thrive; 
It needs reciprocation. 
And so in order to survive 
My love needs affirmation. 
So throw your caution to the sky, 
And let your heart command. 
You'll find that it will not deny 
A love which must expand. 
Come now, to me, with open arms 
And sweep me off my feet; 
And then display for me your charms, 
To make my love complete. 
My one way love will terminate 
Without your inspiration. 
So, therefore, please reciprocate 
With no more hesitation.

Why Guys Like Girls.......

WELL here's a few reasons why guys like girls

1. They will always smell good even if its just shampoo
2. The way their heads always find the right spot on our shoulder
3. How cute they look when they sleep
4. the ease in which they fit into our arms
5. the way they kiss you and all of a sudden everything is right in the world
6. How cute they are when they eat
7. The way they take hours to get dressed but in the end it makes it all worth while
8. because they are always warm even when its minus 30 out side
9. the way they look good no matter what they wear
10. the way they fish for compliments even though you both know that you think she's the most beautiful thing on this            earth
11. How cute they are when they argue
12. the way her hand always finds yours
13. the way they smile
14. the way you feel when you see their name on the call ID after you just had a big fight
15. the way she says "lets not fight anymore" even though you know that an hour later....
16. the way they kiss when you do something nice for them
17. The way they kiss you when you say "I love you'
18. actually... just the way they kiss you...
19. the way they fall into your arms when they cry
20. then the way they apologize for crying over something that silly
21. The way they hit you and expect it to hurt
22. then the way apologize when it does hurt ..(even though we don't admit it!)
23. the way they say "I miss you"
24. the way you miss them
25. the way their tears make you want to change the world so that it doesn't hurt her anymore.....

Yet regardless if you love them, hate them, wish they would die or know that you would die without them... it matters not. Because once in your life, whatever they were to the world they become everything to you. When you look them in the eyes, traveling to the depths of their souls and you say a million things without trace of a sound, you know that your own life is inevitable consumed within the rhythmic beatings of her very heart. We love them for a million reasons, No paper would do it justice. It is a thing not of the mind but of the heart. A feeling. Only felt.

Finding the One You Love.....

There are 4 important persons in your life. How many have you found?

1st - yourself,
2nd - one you love most,
3rd - one who love you most,
4th - one you spend the rest of your life with.

Firstly you'll meet the 1 you love most, and learn how love feels. Because you know how love feels, so you can find the person who loves you most. When you've experienced the feeling of loving others and being loved, you'll then know what it is you need most. Then you will find the person who is most suitable for you, to be able to spend the rest of your life with.

Sadly, in real life, these 3 people are usually not the same person.

The one you love most doesn't love you. The one, who love you most, is never the one you love most. And the one you spend your life with, is never the one you love most or the one who love you most.
He/she is just the person who happens to be at the right place at the right time.

“It hurts to love someone and not be loved in return, but what is the most painful is to love someone and never find the courage to let the person know how you feel.”

The Generation Gap

We've all heard about it and many of us have experienced it first hand. It's probably been around for a while but earlier, the emphasis on filial devotion and the patriarchal structure tended to lessen its impact. Then too, age was respected for its wisdom. But today as the successful get younger and younger and the new makes the old obsolete in record time, the generation gap is much more evident and clearly here to stay.

The generation gap affects not just grandparents but increasingly parents as well. Rapid technological changes have made it almost impossible for any but the very young to adapt fast enough. With age, response time goes up as inertia of rest sets in and before you know it, technology has overtaken you and you're left floundering! Also changing social values and economic conditions have combined to produce what some call the superbrat. He's confident beyond his years, has more opportunities for making money, is in the prime of life and focused only on money, glamour and fame. So what if he's only a teenager? In today's world if you're over thirty you're probably over the hill. Unfortunately however, as far as legal and social definitions go, he's still a child and subject to your discipline. And so the stage is all set for conflict.

In the last few years dating, drugs and discos have come up in a big way. So has consumerism and materialism. Your teenager is no longer content with living life with a modest budget, he wants to enjoy life's luxuries to the hilt. On the positive side, he is willing to work hard to achieve his aims but on the negative side, the single-minded pursuit of success doesn't leave much time for family especially grandparents. Overall, the world is graying fast but the respect and dignity traditionally accorded old age is disappearing just as fast. And old age also means you - after all what can you possibly know about his brave new world?

The generation gap is of course not a given for all families. There are many households where it doesn't occur at all. There are fights and arguments and children defying their parents but these are occasional and minor. What then are these families doing right? Here are a few of their secrets: -

• Lots of communication and involvement - this one's obvious but not always easy to follow. It just means that if you're not talking to the children because you're too busy or too mad at them or because you disagree with whatever they say then you've cut off your channel of communication. So what you need to remember when dealing with teenagers is that they may be insufferable know alls a lot of the time but they'll learn that there are gray shades between the blacks and the whites soon enough. Also that intolerance or a judgemental attitude will hurt you more than your child.
  
• Lots of time spent together in play and fun- its harder to think you hate your mom or dad when you spend a large part of your week having fun with them. It's even harder when in many ways they are your best friends.
  
• Clear boundaries - thus far and no further or they will face clearly defined consequences. As long as children know this, you and they both can be much freer with each other without you worrying about being taken advantage of.
  
• Clear values - make it clear that everything has to be earned. If they want respect for their opinions they have to learn to respect the opinions of others. Similarly other values to stress are honesty, compassion and tolerance.
  
• Foster self-dependence - essentially this means teach them to know their own minds and make their own decisions. This will help them to keep their balance in the face of peer pressure. Self-dependence starts early - let your child have a say in family affairs as well as in matters personally affecting him from the time that he is a toddler. Let him help with family chores and earn a part of his own money. Make it clear that even when he makes mistakes, it's not the end of the world - it's an essential part of the learning process.
  
• Don't forbid anything in absolute terms because the forbidden is always very attractive!
  
  Lots has been written about the generation gap but each family has its own unique ways of expressing this gap. In joint families where there are grandparents, the conflict is often more apparent. Whatever the situation however, remember this story - Long ago there was a devastating war in a country. One of the defeated soldiers dragged himself off the battlefield to the sanctuary of a wise sage and asked him " Is there anything that will take away the sting of our defeat and the glory of the victors?" The sage smiled and said softly " This too shall pass!"